People sometimes was really incredible, extremely contradictory. For example, my own, and others in together, is gentle, quiet, peaceful, with common words, "this man had no temper" or "very good". But in fact, my temper is extremely violent. I was a typical quick temper, and very emotional, very susceptible to emotional impact. A person, a little a bit frustrated, just like every day for my that one death by the slow computer, the smelly temper can immediately get out of nowhere, the whole body to the cells of the crisis, I immediately feel blood vessels, heart rate, head swells, then squeaking teeth, "dead thing" "stupid thing" and so on cursing on, sometimes a frantic roar; If the situation is improving, and his hand was uneasy cent, want to fall the thing, or with the fist ruthlessly hit a anything around me, wall or table, is very hard of that kind of, too soft feel that no heart inside that mouth thought he deserved, if carelessly force, and hit of the hand hurt, and to lay the blame on the wall, the table, or other things, and then have to again with the feet tread on two times just calculate solution spirit. Not familiar with the person never knew, that looks extremely clever appearance, unexpectedly hidden a so violent self. It's fast, go too fast. Calm after, think about what just now, you can find it funny, like a mind to sugar to eat the child, the cry and make, add SaPo roll around, implacable purpose may, very stubborn. But, as we all know, children eat too much carbohydrate fruit is not good, we also know, of the child's attention is easy to attract other things. So, when we don't want him to eat sweets, will use other also has allure to him the things or things, to shift his demanding for sweets, but often this method is very useful, and children is easy to smile through tears, immersed in the joy and curious, later, candy is altogether behind him the clouds. Such childhood the fun, everybody had experienced, the natural, as we all know, this method, and a lot of people have tried. At least, I was often use this recruit deal with little children, and have a proven track record. Just, I never realized, this action for children to the skill of bats, a lot of the things of life is extremely effective, to you I also have reference. The only difference is the, the child is too small, need adult painstakingly guide, and we, need is one's guidance, the heart of the fire of the unknown to find the right vented your exports. Mood dredge, actually during reading. No big deal, is not a slower computer? Don't we all use the same? Why then indulging their emotions? And is not the end of the world, let oneself so lose what to do? Interesting? Also is really boring. Thought of here, have kind of enlightened feeling, like the world became very good big very wide, and himself and his anything on, in contrast is so small. Now that in addition to candy besides, we have so much to choose from, why must stick to at the moment of the candy? Why must and his acting strange? No need, really don't need to. So, now once again when I face the computer slowly, I won't fall off the mouse, keyboard, knock again mainframe or hit the table, won't have that kind of crazy act, won't even temper, even if the flash player 6.0.65 wants people to die. Because, I found the secret of candy, found to release however ingenious. I was in the computer is put by several books, essays, essay, novels or the picture album, anyway, is like watching and would like to read books. So, waiting for the space computer response, I just picked up next to the book, are only after a two paragraphs, the in the mind are calm, have a steal time reading and the excitement of own, where mind and angry? Slowly, I found my temper really convergence a lot, mentality become calm quiet, and I found out before you know it, I have put the secret of life with to anyone and anything, and harvested quite a lot. In a bad mood, he turned on the radio, or to the balcony see mountains; Writing the thesis not go down, they put a put, about some good friends to go to climb mountains, relax spirit, the United States it yue: "to the mountains with aura." Friend brokenhearted, to extricate themselves, I'd also talk to her share the secret of candy. Maybe when you are sad, she immersed in QingShang, did not so much, but still I hope she can understand the subtle, and then one day can say with me then I suggest that give her that sentence: "love didn't didn't, how many interesting life, love is a few minutes but it one of, see the forest for the trees, a little lost, not good." In fact, the world all things, is so. Too paranoid, accustomed to indulge ourselves, will only magnified the pain, aggravate that can't get psychological loss, the results can be even worse. Why embarrass yourself? As trying to get turned to and see the landscape around, maybe you will find that you can.